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Somebody At Chronicle Books Has Some Serious Mother Issues.
By Mari Wadsworth
Generations of Women In Their Own Words, photographs
by Mariana Cook (Chronicle Books). Cloth, 27.50.
Expectations, by Laurie Wagner and Anne Hamersky (Chronicle
Books). Cloth, $22.95.
SOMEBODY AT CHRONICLE Books has some serious mother issues--perhaps
not personally, but certainly professionally. The San Francisco-based
press has released a trio of books just in time for Mother's Day
on May 10, and all three endeavor to present a different twist
on a role that, for all its importance, tends to be the least-exalted
in our post-feminist culture. Borrowing from voices both historic
and contemporary (see "Literary Lineage" above), and
crossing a wide range of economic, social and generational boundaries,
these three books offer a thorough examination of maternity.
Generations is a photo document by Mariana Cook (whose
previous efforts include the best-selling Fathers and Daughters
and Mothers and Sons). Her sensitive, intimate portraits
artfully capture both the physical traits and ethereal expressions
handed down from one group of women to the next. Included also
are autobiographical texts by the subjects themselves, which in
combination with Cook's lovely black-and-whites provide a thoroughly
engaging study of how two people--mother and daughter--can simultaneously
be so alike and so different; or so alike even when one believes
herself to be quite different, as in the case of one third-generation
teenage mom who completes a cycle described, unbeknownst to her,
by her grandmother: "I'm a lot wiser than my mother was,"
says the 18-year-old mother of a newborn. "I don't want my
daughter making the same mistakes, having children so early, growing
up too fast. I won't allow her to do that. I won't."
Expectations also offers a pictorial view, but draws its
inspiration more directly from interviews with new mothers. Author
Laurie Wagner interviewed some 70 women before choosing the 30
interviews that appear here, and she does a fine job of capturing
the insight that "no one knows quite what to expect when
they're expecting." Adopted moms, a mother of triplets, a
mom struggling to overcome her addiction to heroin and speed,
career moms: All speak eloquently on how the biological act of
motherhood transformed and deepened their lives in ways they would
not--indeed, could not--have anticipated.
Writer Mary Truitt Hill sums up the sentiment of both books in
this excerpt from Generations: "I said to my mother,
'I'll be fine if the chaos will just end for three days.' She
started to laugh and said, 'Oh, Mary, the chaos is never going
to end. The only peace there is is the peace with which you greet
the chaos.' That changed my life completely." And, one presumes,
for the better.
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